|
SubscriptionsSites I Read
|
|
|
|
| Still married... Since the advent of facebook and twitter, my xanga time has severely declined. I have to change the name of this xanga... Still married...We haven't killed each other yet, so I'll take that as a good sign... There have been a lot of tense moments in the marriage. I like to think of it as a feeling out process... Foot is not broken anymore, but it certainly isn't fixed either. I had a bunch of things to discuss on here, but I realized that I want to sleep. Good night til next time, which I hope can be sooner than later... | | |
| and I feel horrible about it... Don't worry...I didn't sleep with anyone else or have a horrible gambling addiction. I lied about smoking. I told her I wouldn't and I did. Then I got caught. She's pissed as she has every right to be. Every bone in my body wants to defend my right to smoke. It's not like I smoke every day...I smoke MAYBE once a month. But at the same time, I do realize that I'm lying to my wife about it. Talk about swallowing a bowling ball. | | |
| Work work work
sleep sleep
Guitar, Brazilian Jiu Jitsu, Paintball, Motorcycle, shooting zombies in the face...
Wife Wife Wife and mmmmmmmmm Wife...
So there it is folks, that's my life...
I've been busy...Gone are the days of bringing my laptop to work...I have my iPhone keeping me company for my 8 hour shift...No more blogging on shift...Now it's sudoku and mafia wars...
Life is slowing down to a manageable pace...I like it a lot more like this...I'm breathing easier...I think it's the fact that I quit smoking...
I feel so much more focused...I think it's the fact that I quit drinking...
There are many times I run into friends that I haven't seen in weeks or even months...
Paying bills...You know how it goes...
It's funny to watch people make the same mistakes over and over...I stopped wasting my time to help...
In other words, I stopped reading datingish.com
hahahaha...
Climbing the career ladder...
Climbing the social ladder...
Climbing onto my wife...
Climbing onto my bike...
I'll be sure to stop by here every now and then...I don't even think anyone even reads me anymore...
I need to change my name to
whatyourhusbandreallythinks
The weird thing is, my wife already knows...I have no need to vent since I don't have to hold it in...Although this makes for boring xanga entries, it makes for a completely blessed marital life...
I would give you guys my twitter, but most of you guys who read me already have it...
I would give you my facebook, myspace or yelp, but you don't really care...
I remember trying so hard to break into the xanga community only to be met with the same people too cool to talk to me from high school...
Oh well...
Music is different now...It's not as melancholy...It's not as emo...
It has zest...It has brighter, happier tones...
Life is good....
| | |
| Well...
First of all, I'm back...
I've had a lot of questions thrown my way, both by xangans and my close friends and family...I'll try to address them as best as I can...
I got married to my match in Bali last month... So soon? Yes...I met her at a Thanksgiving party and she was dating one of my friends at the time...So what? She's a little younger than me... A little...It's not like K where she was still in middle school when I was in boot camp...My wife is just a few years younger than me...
My match...Ahhh...My match...
If you have read any of the venom I put out on datingish.com, you must think I'm a total jackass...A bastard beyond all belief...How could my dumb ass find a wife to put up with my attitude?
Easy...She's just as venomous as I am if not MORE...
She has no idea why girls act the way they do...She makes fun of emotionally unstable, indecisive women even MORE than I do...She does not have girlfriends and she likes it that way. No drama...She takes care of business and kicks ass while she's at it...She doesn't let her emotions become a liability...If she has issues, she's up front with them...If I ask her what's wrong, she tells me straight...None of this "nothing" or "I'm fine" bullshit...No mind games...Just a straight up relationship...Definitely not what I was experiencing on the dating scene...
Something else that I found refreshing was that she stands her ground and most importantly, she defends her positions with LOGIC, not EMOTION...When she gets upset, she lets me know and walks away...She understands that fighting while emotional just gets ugly and nothing gets solved...
My wife also does NOT expect me to provide for her financially...She is truly independent and would look at me funny if I tried to belittle her by feeling obligated to pay for things...If she wants to do something, she does it...She plans it, she finances it and she does it...No excuses, no indecisiveness...
It's fucking beautiful...It makes my soul smile that I found someone that is capable of taking care of herself...
Now where do I come in?
I eat vagina well...In her words, "I want to lock that tongue down..."
HAHAHAHAHA...What can I say? She obviously has good taste...That and she tastes good... ;)
Our views on a lot of things agree very well and we both understand we don't have to be perfectly aligned down the middle...
I'd love to show you Indonesia pictures and wedding photos, but my face is pretty much plastered all over them and we all know how much I love my anonymous blogging...
On non-marriage notes...
I finally got my first motorcycle...I don't even know where to start on riding...It's one of the most calming and exhilarating rushes I've ever legally experienced...My blood pressure has dropped about 25 points both systolic and diastolic since I've been riding...I must recommend motorcycle therapy for anyone that can stomach the ride...
I've also taken up paintballing...Something about playing chess with guns and people shooting back at you reminds you how vulnerable you are...You realize that you must rely on your team and that you must act together or you will fail...I really like objective based team games...In paintball, you get all of this and a handful of exercise...
Between all the sex, paintballing and motorcycle riding, I'm a happy guy...Throw in the video games and time with my loved ones, and I'm pretty much set...I'm also loving my nursing job more and more...
Life is just good...
And for all of you guys that asked...
We planned the wedding before I even proposed...I ended proposing in bed 12 hours before the ceremony right before falling asleep while spooning...
And to set things even more backwards, I told her I loved her for the first time AFTER we got married...I didn't want to jinx it...hahahaha...
Any more questions? You know what to do...
PS: I rode elephants, SCUBA dived, rented a motorcycle, rented a scooter, got addicted to peppermint tea and lost 20 lbs while in Indonesia...Sweat my balls off...
PPS: My wife is not Filipino like I am...I've been told that half white, half Asian babies make good mixes...
PPPS: My wife is TALL...She's about 5'10"...I have 3 inches on her...And about 6 inside of her...HAHAHAHA
Okay...Seriously, I'm done...
| | |
| Back from Bali...
Got married...
Looking for motorcycle...
| | |
|
|
Do it...No...Seriously...Do it...
|
|
|
