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| Back from my sabbatical...Well...
First of all, I'm back...
I've had a lot of questions thrown my way, both by xangans and my close friends and family...I'll try to address them as best as I can...
I got married to my match in Bali last month... So soon? Yes...I met her at a Thanksgiving party and she was dating one of my friends at the time...So what? She's a little younger than me... A little...It's not like K where she was still in middle school when I was in boot camp...My wife is just a few years younger than me...
My match...Ahhh...My match...
If you have read any of the venom I put out on datingish.com, you must think I'm a total jackass...A bastard beyond all belief...How could my dumb ass find a wife to put up with my attitude?
Easy...She's just as venomous as I am if not MORE...
She has no idea why girls act the way they do...She makes fun of emotionally unstable, indecisive women even MORE than I do...She does not have girlfriends and she likes it that way. No drama...She takes care of business and kicks ass while she's at it...She doesn't let her emotions become a liability...If she has issues, she's up front with them...If I ask her what's wrong, she tells me straight...None of this "nothing" or "I'm fine" bullshit...No mind games...Just a straight up relationship...Definitely not what I was experiencing on the dating scene...
Something else that I found refreshing was that she stands her ground and most importantly, she defends her positions with LOGIC, not EMOTION...When she gets upset, she lets me know and walks away...She understands that fighting while emotional just gets ugly and nothing gets solved...
My wife also does NOT expect me to provide for her financially...She is truly independent and would look at me funny if I tried to belittle her by feeling obligated to pay for things...If she wants to do something, she does it...She plans it, she finances it and she does it...No excuses, no indecisiveness...
It's fucking beautiful...It makes my soul smile that I found someone that is capable of taking care of herself...
Now where do I come in?
I eat vagina well...In her words, "I want to lock that tongue down..."
HAHAHAHAHA...What can I say? She obviously has good taste...That and she tastes good... ;)
Our views on a lot of things agree very well and we both understand we don't have to be perfectly aligned down the middle...
I'd love to show you Indonesia pictures and wedding photos, but my face is pretty much plastered all over them and we all know how much I love my anonymous blogging...
On non-marriage notes...
I finally got my first motorcycle...I don't even know where to start on riding...It's one of the most calming and exhilarating rushes I've ever legally experienced...My blood pressure has dropped about 25 points both systolic and diastolic since I've been riding...I must recommend motorcycle therapy for anyone that can stomach the ride...
I've also taken up paintballing...Something about playing chess with guns and people shooting back at you reminds you how vulnerable you are...You realize that you must rely on your team and that you must act together or you will fail...I really like objective based team games...In paintball, you get all of this and a handful of exercise...
Between all the sex, paintballing and motorcycle riding, I'm a happy guy...Throw in the video games and time with my loved ones, and I'm pretty much set...I'm also loving my nursing job more and more...
Life is just good...
And for all of you guys that asked...
We planned the wedding before I even proposed...I ended proposing in bed 12 hours before the ceremony right before falling asleep while spooning...
And to set things even more backwards, I told her I loved her for the first time AFTER we got married...I didn't want to jinx it...hahahaha...
Any more questions? You know what to do...
PS: I rode elephants, SCUBA dived, rented a motorcycle, rented a scooter, got addicted to peppermint tea and lost 20 lbs while in Indonesia...Sweat my balls off...
PPS: My wife is not Filipino like I am...I've been told that half white, half Asian babies make good mixes...
PPPS: My wife is TALL...She's about 5'10"...I have 3 inches on her...And about 6 inside of her...HAHAHAHA
Okay...Seriously, I'm done...
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| Back from Bali...
Got married...
Looking for motorcycle...
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| It's been awhile...Since I could call you...
It's been awhile, eh?
School and work...I've become a drone...
Girlfriend...Thank God for the girlfriend...
Things are so good that I have nothing to complain about...
Which means I have nothing to write about...
With as much school and work I've been doing, I haven't been logging in xanga, facebook, myspace...
No more fire and brimstone responses to datingish... I'd so rather be going down on my girlfriend...
Working on getting a tombstone on two wheels aka. motorcycle...
Going to Bali for 10 days during spring break...
Statistics is awesome...Chemistry is breaking my balls...
I feel good...
And I knew that I would...
I feeeeeeeel good...
And I knew that I would...
So good...
So good...
That I got meu...
Doot doot doot doot doot doot...
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| Oh yeah...A man came up to me in LA and said,
"Excuse me, sir, but could you spare some change because I'm hungry an--"
"Yo dude, I'm hungry too...Do you know where I can get free food?"
He was not amused...
Also, my personal favorite response when people ask me for change...
"Change comes from within..."
I'm not cheap, I just don't believe in welfare...
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| Damn... It's been 2 weeks?Well happy new year?
I know it's been awhile...
I've been busy...Rotating work schedule, holidays, family time, I'm going back to college to expedite my bachelors, ...
Thailand? Australia? Diddy Reese?
Motorcycle license...Still need motorcycle...Congratulations to the best friend on purchasing his new bike...Looks like we have a little crew between the four of us...
I'm took a small break from datingish, yelp, myspace, facebook, xanga and the internet in general...hahaha...My footprint count went from 1000 footprints a week back down to 300...Not that it really matters...I'm surprised anyone actually reads this for the content...Most of the people visiting the site are pervs looking for more pictures (I don't blame them...) or people jumping over from datingish...
There has been a whirlwind of events since Thanksgiving...
I realized I stopped writing in here a while ago...I think it all started when I went on the datingish comment quest...I want to say I was negative, but every comment I look back on, I know I still was very true to myself and called it how I saw it...I've made concious efforts to really stay away from datingish blogs that are seriously garbage slam dunks AKA I'm looking for a pity party, my boyfriend is a moron, I have no social skills, I have no self esteem left, I'm a hater...You know, the negative stuff...I'll save good comments for extra special posts...
So about the girlfriend...Yeah...Awesome...It's good to have something in common other than great sex...I remember before, I told someone on datingish that I had the patience to stick it out for a girl that was what I wanted...I'd have to say I got pretty close to what I was looking for...She doesn't post half naked pictures online because I get private shows all the time...
5'10", 124 lbs, 34" inseam...tall...OMG legs and a ballet dancers body...Can we say "jungle gym"?
Graduated early from high school, finished her BS by 20 and has owned her own business since she was 23...This one is driven and self motivated...
Isn't looking to "mold" or "make over" her boyfriend...She understands that any changes that are gonna happen are gonna be initiated by myself and for my own benefit...
Enjoys the fact that I have my own friends and actually make time for them...
Plays a lot of video games...Now that I think about it, I've walked into the room and it looking exactly like that picture I use for my profile picture...Not only did my jaw drop when I entered the room, but she then proceeded to has kick my ass at puzzle bobble, pin ball, DoA2 and Mario Kart...This is no easy feat...Just ask methodick...
Watchs sports and appreciates it...She loves attending live sporting events...Literate in UFC...This is a big wow...
Eats like she has a tape worm...
My family likes her already...
Brutally honest...Believes that being straight forward is the best way to save time...If you're acting like a cunt, she will not hesitate to call you a "cunt" and call you out...And you will know who you are when you read this, but she even called someone a "Mongolian" for acting like a "Mongolian" with no prompt... (There is nothing wrong with Mongolians...) Seriously, funniest thing I've heard out of a girls mouth in a long time...
Believes that confrontation is the first step in mutual problem resolution and has no problems with it...This is REALLY important...
Likes the fact that I can pull girls, but likes it even more that I pulled her...
Understands that we both need space and other friends...
Well traveled and consistant in finding new places to go...Australia and Thailand were mentioned earlier for this reason...
Very physically active...I will be taking her rock climbing...She wants to take me frozen waterfall climbing...hahaha...go karting, laser tag,
Planner...
Does not drink...
Does not smoke...
Does not expect me to stop smoking or drinking, but will definitely support me if I want to stop...
Being that she only works 4 months out of the year, she can afford to be as spontaneous as I am with my nursing schedule...Works out pretty well...
Yes, I have cons too...
She dated one of my brother's friends...If you knew some of the circles I'm close to, you'd understand why this is a con...
Volatile family situation...
Can bring work or family situation into personal time...This red flag maybe a deal breaker...I'll talk to her about this...
Procrastinater...Bad when both people in a relationship are like this...
Messy...On a scale of one to ten, I'm about a 6...She's probably an 7.8...
Not always a con, but a little too low maintenence sometimes...
As independant and driven as she is, she does have an occassion princess moment...No one is perfect...
I find that sometimes we have too much in common...
"I work well under pressure" usually = "I'm a procrastinator..." Ehhh...I know this all too well...hahahaha...
It's been a month already, but we're really trying to take it slow...
I know what some of you might be thinking...
What about K?
Well...She's slid into a friends role...She's pretty busy with work and her son so I have left it to her to contact me when she has time to hang out...I'll always care about her, but I don't have to wonder if it would have ever worked out...
What about H?
Slid into the friends role much more easily, but checks in pretty consistantly...
What about W?
Tried to talk to her on facebook to catch up, but she's still angry about events just after our breakup...Talk about holding a grudge...
What about *insert your favorite letter here*?
I don't know...I stopped trying and they disappeared...That usually means that they're not worth my time...C'est la vie, non?
I had a friend of mine ask me what this all means...He asked me if having a girlfriend would mean that I wouldn't go out any more...
Of course I will...I know myself...I know I'm not a cheater...I will wingman the shit outta my friends...I will still run game out of good sportsmanship and practice...I don't want to develop any social rust...I think it's important to still be able to talk to other girls while you're in a relationship...I know my boundaries...I know her comfort and respect levels...
Hello 2009...
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